Part 2

So Now I knew her and as all my friends know I am a slow starter in friendships. (Jus a slow starter though later i more than dominate proceedings. Mr shake and Mr Broken legs are more than witness of this dominance).
i always digress too much isn't it. Anyways, So i was a slow starter , did not have too many instances of communications with her in initial instances. It was limited to customary greetings whenever i visited my friends. later on i once stayed at my friends for longer period and we had lunch together, this once converted into many instances in whole of may. We now chitchatted on various issues ranging from my college studies, my hindu days, her studies ( i was more than happy to help anyone in programming, the engineering side had kicked in u see), this conversation later on turned towards our personal life. Good use of summer vacations u see.
Once i was at the place and needed to buy a new Bag for myself. this was sometime in june mid. And after some hectic schedules at my intern place. So i was at my familiar locations in northern part of delhi with my old friend and new found friend. i wanted to go to buy a bag and this friend offered her expert help in buying one for me in the locales known to her.
So began our Bag buying spree ( 1 bag only waise ) How much time would that take. 10 mins flat. Job done now what? We decided to hang out together and we went to a nearby mall for lunch in sweltering june heat of delhi.
That was our first , what u call it... eh...... date.

we sat there for say 3-4 hrs, like true "Vellas" chit chatting on almost every topic under the sun. then it was time to say goodye for the day. That instance after wards we opened up a lot towards each other frequent phone calls messages etc.

Proposal.... Not yet not now dearest friends..... It took a whole lot of time...
Got to sign off for the day . but i will sign off with a poem i had dedicated to her long back....

Nothing stays the same.
Sunrise becomes sunset;
Morning turns into night;
An angry storm can turn
Into a gentle breeze;
A tiny seed can become a
Towering tree;
A lowly caterpillar
Transforms into a
Colorful butterfly;
A child grows into a man.

Life goes on.
Seasons change.
Circumstances change.
People change.

But I know
That I will always love you
No matter what happens
Or whatever changes
That will take place in
our lives..

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Love
AKJ


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A humble Request

Dear friends, Followers, well wishers
many people have asked me the purpose of the blog and what is it menat to convey and why public with some of the most intimate details of my life.

The answer is:-
I made some follies in my relationship, which turned for worse, follies on my part that are unforgivable ( as it seems) but the hopeful human heart expects the same. This blog is a way to pay respect to this girl who made my life and also ask for her forgiveness publicly.
I am recounting everythin that happened with us, maybe that will make the fate reignite the dwindling fire.
For others this may be a perfect guide to what not to do in a relationship, perhaps.

So a humble request to all of you:- i know that she is reading the same for sure. if all of you can leave a comment here for her I will be more than pleased.

Hoping for continued patronage.

Thanks
AKJ